You should NEVER scold a cat.

That's right. You should never scold a cat. Scolding a cat can be harmful to their mental and emotional health. Cats are not like dogs, and they do not understand punishment in the same way. When you scold a cat, they may become scared, anxious, or even aggressive. They may also start to associate you with negative feelings, which can damage your relationship.

There are much better ways to train your cat and discourage unwanted behavior. Positive reinforcement is the best way to teach your cat what you want them to do. When your cat does something good, be sure to praise them and give them a treat. This will help them to associate good behavior with positive things, and they will be more likely to repeat it.

If your cat is exhibiting unwanted behavior, you can try to redirect their attention to something else. For example, if your cat is scratching the furniture, try giving them a scratching post. If your cat is meowing at night, try playing with them before bed to tire them out.

If you are having trouble training your cat, you may want to consult with a certified cat behaviorist. They can help you to understand your cat's behavior and develop a training plan that is right for them.

Here are some additional tips for training your cat without scolding:

• Be consistent. Cats learn best when they know what is expected of them.
• Be patient. It may take time for your cat to learn new behaviors.
• Be positive. Praise your cat when they do something good.
• Don't punish. Scolding or hitting your cat will only make them afraid of you.

With patience and consistency, you can train your cat to be a well-behaved member of your family.